Bvunza uye Pindura Izvi Mibvunzo Inokosha Yokuona Kuti Unogona Kubhadhara Mari Yakawanda KoKoreji
Icho chirevo chekare chinoreva kuti "kuda mari ndiwo mudzi wezvakaipa zvose." Kunyange zvazvo izvi zvingave zvechokwadi kana zvatorwa kune zvakadzama, ukama hwapedyo nemari inogona kuva nemigumisiro yakawanda. Paanosarudza kuti mhuri inokwanisa sei kubhadhare pakoroji, panofanira kuva nekunzwisisa zvakajeka kwemari inobatanidzwa.
Zvakanaka, vabereki nevadzidzi vavo vanoda kukoreji vakurukura nezvemari yemayunivhesiti kwemakore akawanda, saka mudzidzi ane tarisiro yakakwana yemhuri inogona kubhadhara.
Muzvokwadi, kunyange zvakadaro, mhuri dzakawanda hazvirevi zvidzidzo izvi nevadzidzi vavo. Zvinogona kunge zvisinganzwisisiki, zvinonyadzisa, uye zvinonetsa. Zvinogona kuda kukumbira mudzidzi kuti aite zvibayiro, kana kuti apfuure kushamwaridzana mupfungwa kune imwe koroji kuitira kuti vamwe vose vemhuri vabatsirwe.
Mhuri dzakawanda dzinodzivisa, dzinonoka, kana kuti dzisingabatanidzi zvakanyanya nekukurukurirana uku, asi mazano aya anongotungamirira kuwedzere kushungurudzika, kuvhiringidzika uye kutsamwa. Kuti ubatsire kuderedza mutoro wekutanga kukurukurirana, heanoi mazano mashanu emari anokosha kubvunza vasati vashandisa kukoreji:
- Kuve nemudzidzi mujijiji kunobata sei mhuri yedu nemari? Kunyange zvazvo vadzidzi vachida kuzvifunga semunhu mumwe nomumwe, hapana kana kuramba kuti ivo vari chikamu chemhuri huru. Zviito izvo munhu mumwe anotora zvinogona kuchinja zvakanyanya kune dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri. Mudzidzi anoramba achida kuenda kuchikoro chikuru-tikati asinganzwisisi migumisiro yemari inogona kuderedza mhuri yakagadzikana. Ita kuti mudzidzi wako atsvakurudzire mari yekuenda kune imwe yejijiji, uye kwete kungojekesa chikoro chemari. Ita kuti iye afunge nezvimwe zvinotarisirwa nemhuri inofanira kutakura, zvakadai sokufamba, zvirongwa zvemashoko, zvokudya, uye varaidzo mari. Haisi chaiye kusvikira pane nhamba yekupedzisira.
- Ko rubatsiro rukuru rwemari rwandingatarisira kugamuchira? Kune marudzi akasiyana-siyana ekubhadharwa kwemari anowanikwa kubva kuhurumende uye hurumende yehurumende, pamwe nesangano racho pacharo. Zvichienderana nehutano hwemhuri nemari uye mari yekoroji, pane zvingave zvakasiyana-siyana kubva kune imwe koroji kusvika kune imwe inotevera. Kunyange zvazvo iwe usingakwanisi kuwana mazita chaiwo kusvikira wapedza FAFSA uye chikoro chimwe nechimwe chinopa mari yekubatsira mari , unogona kuwana pfungwa yakaipa yehuwandu hwemari inowanikwa nevana.
- Imhuri yedu inowanikwa mari yakawanda sei kubhadhara kojiji? Mamwe mhuri anokwanisa kuunganidza mari yakawanda yemari kuburikidza nemapurogiramu ekuchengetedza koroji, asi vamwe vanotambudzika kuti vapedze zvikwereti kubva pamari yekubhadhara kubhadhara. Kana pasina nzvimbo yekusagadzikana mubhadharo yemhuri, zvichange zvakaoma zvikuru kubhadhara mari yese yekubatanidzwa kune imwe yejijiji. Dzimwe mhuri dzinoenda kune zvikwereti zvevadzidzi sechigadziriswa, asi izvi zvinogona dzimwe nguva kuvhiringidza mari yavo zvakare kupinda mune chikwereti.
- Tichawana mari yakawanda sei kubhadhara mari yechikwereti? Mhuri dzinofanirwa kuva dzakanyatsojeka pamusoro pekuti chikwereti chakawanda sei chavanokwanisa kutakura kuburikidza nehurumende uye yega yevadzidzi vechikwereti. Usangotora huwandu hwemari inopiwa, uye shandisa mari yekushandisa mari yekushandisa, sezvo urongwa uhwu hunogona kudzorera munguva yemberi. Funga nezvenzira dzakasiyana dzokubhadhara kukoroji kuitira kuti iwe unogona kukwereta zvishomanana.
- Zvichave zvakadini apo patinofanira kubhadhara zvikwereti zvevadzidzi? Sarudza kuti ndiani achange achibhadhara asati atora chero chikwereti chemudzidzi. Vabereki uye vadzidzi vanofanira kujekesa kuti ndiani achave ane mhosva, saka vanogona kuronga mari yeramangwana pamusoro pekufungidzirwa mari inogona kuwanikwa. Shandisa muenzanisi wekubhadhara kuti uone zvinokwereta zviuru zvemadhora gore negore kwemakore mana kana kupfuura zvicharamba pamwedzi. Kana nhengo dzemhuri dzichikumbira kubatidzira chikwereti pazvikwereti zvevadzidzi, inogona kuva nemigumisiro yakaipa pamakwereti avo.
Kukurukurirana semhuri pamusoro pokubhadhara kwunivhesiti kunogona kuzarura dzimwe chokwadi chinorwadza, asi zvinotungamirira kune mamwe mazano ekugadzirisa mazano. Mudzidzi nevabereki vanogona kufambira mberi zvichibva pazivo, uye kwete mafungiro kana zvishuvo zvisingaiti.