Kuenda kuChikoro Kunosanganisa Kupfuura Icho Chete Mudzidzi
Zvisarudzo zvishoma muhupenyu zvinogadzirwa muvharidzi - zvinoitika munzvimbo imwe nguva zvinosanganisa chimwe chinhu. Izvozvowo ndezvechokwadi nezvekutumira mwana kukoroji. Chisarudzo ichocho chinonyanya kukosha mune zvemari kune mudzidzi uyewo kune umwe neumwe wemhuri. Inogona kukanganisa mhuri kutenga zvigadziro, mamwe mavambo emwana ekoroji, uye kusarudzwa kwevabereki kubasa. Vabereki vanofanira kushanda nemudzidzi wavo kuti vasarudze kuti ndeipi nzira yekuita nayo yakanakisisa kune vose vanobatanidzwa.
Heano mibvunzo mina mhuri yese inofanira kupindura pamusoro pekubhadhara kwekoroji:
- Izvi zvinodhura zvakadini ? Mari yekorogi haifaniri kushamisika iyo inongoratidzwa chete apo mabhiriro anotanga kusvika. Mhuri yako inofanirwa kuva nekutora pamakorojiji ako mwana wako asati atanga kushandisa. Chikoro chimwe nechimwe, pamwe nehurumende uye hurumende dzehurumende, dzichava nehuwandu hunoonekwa huripo kubatsira kubatsira kuverenga mari yakawanda yekuuya uye kuongororwa mari yekubatsira mari . Mhuri yako inogona kushandisa izvi sekutanga uye inodzoka kune chero ipi zvayo yakatarisira dzidzo yekutsvaga kuti chii chichazobva pakuchengetedza kana kukwereta.
- Tinokwanisa here kuwana mari iyoyo? Kunyange zvazvo mudzidzi wacho asingachagari pamba, bhadha yemhuri inowanzoshandiswa kuribhadharira zvose zvezuva rimwe nerimwe zvinodhura pamusoro pezvidzidzo, nzvimbo, bhodhi, uye mabhuku. Mhuri yacho inoerekana yaona kuti hapana mari yakakwana yekuita mari yekubhadhara mari kana kugadziriswa kumba, uye inofanira kutora chikwereti chakawedzerwa. Mhuri inofanira kuva nemafungiro anonzwisisika ekuti mari yakawanda sei yekubhadhara yekoroji. Kana zvisingakwani kuenda kudzikoro yekusarudza, mudzidzi anofanira kubvunzwa kuti auye nemamwe mazano ekuvhara mari.
- Tichafanira kutora chikwereti chevadzidzi here? Mari yechikwereti haisi chinhu chakaipa, uye inogona kubatsira mukubhadhara mari yekoroji. Dambudziko nderokuti mhuri dzakawanda dzinotora chikamu chikuru chegore negore, inoderedza chikwereti chero chipi nechipi, uye inowanzoshamiswa nekuwanda kwezvavanofanira kuita pakupedza kudzidza. Ndizvo chete zvino ivo vanotanga kunetseka pamusoro pekuti vachazobhadhara sei chikwereti chipi zvacho.
- Ndiani achabhadhara chikwereti ichi? Izvo zvose zvikwereti nemubereki zvikwereti zvinowanikwa kuburikidza nehurumende yehurumende, asi chinhu chimwe icho mhuri dzakawanda hazvizvibvunzi kuti ndiani achadzorera zvikwereti zvevadzidzi . Vabereki vanofunga kuti mudzidzi achabhadhara mari, asi mudzidzi anogona kufunga kuti vabereki vachabhadhara. Munhu wose anoshamiswa pashure pokunge apedza chikoro apo kubhadhara kwezviziviso zvinotanga kusvika uye pasina chibvumirano chave chakaiswa. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuti mudzidzi anzwisise mitemo yekudzidzira uye kupedza-kupedza zvidzidzo zvinogona kubva kuchikoro chega chega kana iye achizove ane mhosva yekubhadhara. Kunyangwe nemari yekubhadhara mari yakabhadharwa, vakawanda vanoona kuti mari yekubhadhara pamwedzi yakanyanyisa kuenzaniswa neyekuwana mari uye nedzimwe mari.
Mudzidzi angave ari kutora zvidzidzo, asi kuenda kuchikoro ndiko kudzidza kwemhuri. Vabereki vanoedza nguva dzose kuti vawane zvakanakisisa kuvana vavo, asi iyo nzira dzimwe nguva inogona kudzoka. Kana zvinoreva kuti mhuri inopinda mune chikwereti, vabereki vanofanira kudzorera basa ravo rekurega basa, kana mudzidzi akasungirirwa nehupenyu hwose hwechikwereti, zvingasava sarudzo yakanakisisa yekuenda kune imwe koroji. Taura kuburikidza nemasarudzo ako uye ita sarudzo yakakunakira iwe.
Kana uine mamwe mibvunzo, usatarirazve.