Iwe unogona sei kuronga mari yakareba yakadaro?
Icho chindori, nzvimbo, chikafu, maruva, mapepa, keke-uye iyo inongova chidimbu chechando.
Ngatitarisei zvose zvinoshandiswa nemuchato, kuitira kuti iwe uve nehuwandu hwekuwanda sei, zvechokwadi, iwe ungagumisa kupedza.
Ring
Ikushanda kwezvishongo zvekushongedza "kutonga kwechigunwe" ndeyekuti chindori chinofanira kutora mari miviri miviri, kunyange zvazvo iyo inoratidzika seyakashamisika kuti inosangana nayo. Kunyange zvakadaro, rin'i rinogona kutengesa kubva kune $ 500 kusvika $ 5,000 kana kupfuura.
Dress
Maererano neU.SA Nhasi, muvhareji anowedzera $ 3,000 pamapfekero ake. Yeuka, mukuwedzera kune jasi guru; iwe unogona kusarudza chifukidziro, shangu, uye zvishongo zvekuwedzera. Izvi zvinogona kuwedzera zvakakurumidza kupfuura zvaunotarisira. (Muroori, panguva iyo, anofanira kubvisa mazana mashomanana e tuxedo yakaroreswa.)
Nzvimbo
Kubhadhara nzvimbo yemhemberero, kudya kwemanheru, uye kugamuchirwa kunogona kukwana zviuru zvemadhora. Uyezve, nzvimbo dzakawanda dzinoda kuti vaviri vacho vashandise zvikafu zvekumba kana zvekudya, izvo zvinogona kuwedzera kune mari yevadzidzi nokuti vakavharwa mune izvo zvokudya uye zvinodhaka zvekutengesa.
Vamwe vanhu, zvisinei, vanosarudza kuchengetedza mari kuburikidza nekugadzirisa muchato wavo kune imwe shamwari kana mhuri yemhuri, kana nekuchengetedza nzvimbo yakasununguka kana yakadzika sepaki yepaguru.
Zvokudya
Zvikwereti, kudya kwemanheru, uye mharidzo inogona kudhura. Zvizhinji zvebasa rebazi "pamunhu" kana "pamusoro," saka varongi vomuchato dzimwe nguva vanokurudzira vakaroorana kuti vaderedze mari dzavo dzekuchata nekucheka vatenzi vavo mazita.
Zvechokwadi, iyo haisi mhinduro huru kune vakaroorana vakawanda vanoshuva shamwari dzavo nemhuri kuti vavepo pazuva ravo guru. Nzira dzakasiyana dzekuderedza mari yako yezvokudya zvemuchato dzinosanganisira kupa bhoti-mavara, kuzvidya zvokudya (zvakasiyana nekutora ndiro imwechete inoshandiswa nemumiririri), kushumira zvokudya zvezvirimwa kana zvokudya zvakaderera zvakadai sekuku, kana kuputsa mukana wehadhi.
Asati-uye-Pashure
Usakanganwe; iwewo unofanirwa kushumira zvokudya pane kudya kwemanheru uye zuva-shure mushure.
Mikoti
Icho chinogona kunge chisinganzwisisiki, asi chimiro "chengetedza zuva" makadhi, akatevedzwa nemamapoti ehurumende, anogona kuwedzera kusvika kumazana emadhora. Vakawanda vakaroorana vanosarudza kuva nemhizha yemufananidzo wekutora mifananidzo ye "kachengetedza zuva" kadi, iyo inobatanidza mari. Iwe unogona kuderedza mari iyi kuburikidza nekugadzira mapepa ako kuGimp, yepurogiramu yepurogiramu yepurogiramu yakafanana neAma Photoshop. Zvadaro tungamira kune yeKinko iri pedyo kuti udhindise zvaunokumbira, kana kutenga ipirita yepamusoro-soro uye imwe pepa rekugadzira kuti uidhindwe kumba.
Cake
Kugadzira keke yezvikwata zvakasiyana-siyana chinhu chikuru chemufudzi wepasty, uye vakaroorana vanopomerwa zvakakodzera. Kusarudza makatekesi, ayo asingadhuri uye nyore kune vanofudza mapeji kuti aite, anogona kukuchengetedza mari. Zvimwe, kana nzvimbo yako ichibvumira, unogona kukumbira shamwari dzako kana mhuri kuti uite keke sechipo chemuchato kwauri.
(Usangozvitarisira kuti uve "unyanzvi hwehutano" kana iwe ukatora nzira iyi.)
Inwa
Ah, iyo yakazaruka. Doro rinogona kuwedzera nokukurumidza. Dzorerai mari kuburikidza nekupa zvishoma kusarudzwa kwewaini newaini (Trader Joe's Charles Shaw brand yewaini, inonzi "Two-Buck Chuck," ndiyo nzira yakanaka). Kana nzvimbo yako ichibvumira, unogonawo kuunganidza mumwe wevako shamwari kuti uve bartender akasarudzwa manheru.
Band kana DJ
Pasinei nokuti iwe unobvunza mimhanzi band kana DJ, gadzirira kupedza pakati pezviuru mazana nezviuru kusvika kune zviuru. Pashure pezvose, boka rinofanira kubhadhara nhengo dzaro uye kuvhara zvigadzirwa zvayo uye kutengesa mari; DJ inofanira kubhadharwa nguva yake uye inopa mari yake yekushandisa mari. Uye iwe unogona kushandisa sangano remimhanzi uye yekushambadzira yezvivaraidzo kuti uwane tarenda, iyo inotorawo kutemwa kwemari.
Iwe unogona kuderedza mari iyi nekuisa pamwe iPod playlist yemuchato wako nekukumbira shamwari kuti ive mutariri wezwi rwenzwi.
Guest Gifts
Unoda kubhadhara dhimato remafoto, apo vaenzi vanogona kuvhara mifananidzo yavo pachavo? Unoda mushonga wepopcorn kana mishonga yemasipi? Unoda kupa vatenzi vako zviduku zviduku zvouchi sezvinoitirwa kumba? Izvi zvipo zvevashanyi zvinodhura mari yakakwana yemari.
"Zuva-Iku" Mugadziri
Zuva chaiyo rechiitiko zvinoda kuwanda kwechiitiko chekugadzirisa. Iwe unenge uine ruzivo rwakanyanya kudzvinyirira kana iwe uine "zuva-we" mutungamiri uyo anokwanisa kutarisira zvikamu zvose zvakasiyana-siyana zvichifamba: kuve nechokwadi kuti vafudzi vanoziva kwavanoenda, vachitungamirira videographer nemufotori, vachivimbisa kuti musikana wemaruva ari panzvimbo .
Photographer
Iwe uchatsvaga mifananidzo yakakwirira yezuva rako guru. Vakaronga vechato vanowanzokurudzira vatengi, kwete kutema mufananidzo wevatori vemifananidzo kubvira pamifananidzo iyo inobva mumangariro enyu. Vakawanda vakaroorana vanocheka kubva kune dzimwe nzvimbo, semaruva kana kuti centrepieces, kuti vave nechokwadi chokuti vane mufananidzo akanaka kana videographer.
Honeymoon
Yep, iyo yendoi yekutora iwe inotora mushure mhemberero yacho inogona kuverenga kune mari yako yemari. Funga zvakanyatsofunga kana iwe ungasarudza muchato unofadza kana unofadza uchi. Vamwe vanofambisa vanofarira skimp pamuchato kuitira kuti vagone kupedza vhiki pachinzvimbo chepamusoro chekugara muMaldives. Vamwe, zvisinei, vanofunga kuti vanogona kufamba chero nguva, asi ivo vanongozoroora kamwe chete, saka vanoratidza chikamu chebhajheji yavo yechato uye skimp parwendo.
Zvipfeko
Kubvira pamaruva kusvika ku-centerpieces, kubva kumakwikwi kuenda kumatafura, kubva pachigaro chakasvikira kumakadhi emakadhi emakadhi, muchato wako unosanganisira zvakawanda zvekushongedza. Unoda marambi here? Makese? Inoda kubvarura sirivha? Izvo zvose zvichakutora iwe
Iwe Ungabhadhara Sei Izvo Zvose?
Icho chinyorwa chinoshamisa chenguva refu yemari. Iwe usati watanga kushandisa mari, dzokorora urongwa uhwu uye uverenge mari inoshandiswa pakuronga. Ndechipi chinhu chimwe chete pane urongwa urwu? Nguo? Mufananidzo wacho? Iko kunogara kwechichi? Ndeipi nhamba mbiri nhamba pane yako? Uye iwe unoda kuregerei kuti uone kuti iwe unogona kuchengeta mari yakakwana yekubhadhara zvinhu zvako zvakakosha?
Ita munhu mumwe nomumwe - mwenga nomwenga - zvakasiyana nhamba iyi inoratidze izvi nenzira yekutanga. Zvadaro oenzanisa manotsi kuti uone kuti zvinokosha sei.
Kubhadhara ndeye, pamwoyo, unyanzvi hwekugadzirisa zvaunoshandisa nezvinhu zvako zvinokosha. Nzira chete yauchazoita nayo ndeyokutaura kuti mari ipi inotora nhamba imwechete uye nekusarudza chaunenge uchida kupa.