Hazvipi zvibayiro zvakakosha kune ramangwana rako remudzidzi?
Paunokumbira vabereki vakawanda zvavanenge vachida kuzvipira nokuda kwevana vavo remangwana, mhinduro yacho inowanzo "chinhu nezvose." Vanoda kuita chero chinotora kuti vaone kuti mwana wavo akabudirira uye anofara. Asi yakawanda sei? Ndeipi iyo inotorwa pakati pekuva mubereki anotsigira uye kudzidzisa mwana kuti ave oga?
Uyu mubvunzo unonyanya kufunga mupfungwa dzevabereki vakawanda iye zvino sezvavanopedza FAFSA uye kumirira kuwanikwa kwekubhadhara rubatsiro rwemari kune vadzidzi vekoroji.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko ivo vachashungurudzika kuona kuti rubatsiro rwekubatsira runopiwa harukwanisi kunyatsozadza mari yekuenda kune imweji yekoroji. Vanobva varwisana nehondo yepamberi yezvinozoita. Vanofanira kutora mari yakawanda kubva kune hurumende yehurumende, kugadziridza imba, kana kukwereta nekambani yekurasikirwa kuti vauye nemari yakawedzerwa?
Kakawanda kuitanidza pakati pekutarisira mhuri yose, kutsigira mudzidzi mumwe mujijiji nekugadzirira ramangwana ravo.
Zvinhu Zvokufunga nezvazvo
- Mwana wenyu akashanda zvakawanda sei izvi? Tarisa kumashure emakore ekudzidzira kuchikoro chesekondari uye funga nezvekuedza kwakawanda sei pakuzadzisa kurota kwekoroji. Akashanda kumakoro, kutora mimwe mabasa epashambadziro, kubata basa rekushanda, kana kuenda kune imwe nzvimbo yakawanda pakushandisa kumakoroji? Rudzi urwu rwekushingaira uye kushingaira kunobvumidza kuti zvimwe zviongorore munyaya yekukwereta.
- Mwana wako akaiswa pachikoro ichi uye nei? Pane dzimwe nguva apo mudzidzi anogona kukwanisa kufarira kune imwe yejiji, uye anogona kuve nemanzwiro kana akaudzwa kuti haisi kunze kwemari. Usati watanga kukurukurirana kwemari, edza kuva nehurukuro yakadzikama nemwana wako nezvekuti sei ikojiji yakakosha zvikuru. Kana zvikonzero zvikabvira, zvingave zvakakosha kune rubatsiro rwezvemari.
- Pane dzimwe nzira dzingabhadhara here? Wakatarisa mune zvimwe zvose zvingasarudzwa here? Kune dzakawanda makoroji ane mapurogiramu makuru anotengesa zvikuru. Kune musiyano pakati pekugara pamba uye kugara pamusasa, kana kugara mumamiriro ako enyika kusiyana nekuenda kureji mune imwe nyika? Ko mwana wenyu anogona kuwana zvikwereti kuburikidza neAA miedzo, yejijijijiji, kana kutora zvidzidzo zvepamusoro payejiji yepasi munguva yezhizha? Izvo zvose zvinogona kubatsira kubatsira kuderedza mutoro wekutengesa pajiji yekutanga.
- Ndechipi chikamu chemari yemudzidzi wako? Kana iwe usingakwanisi kuwana mari yakakwana yekudzidzisa yekoroji, taura nekufungisisa nemwana wako nezvekuita kwavo mune zvemari. Taura pasina chinyatsoziva kana mudzidzi wako angatarisirwa kuwana mari mugore rezvidzidzo uye kuputsa. Iwe unotarisira chikwereti chei chikwereti chemudzidzi mwana wako achizobhadhara pashure pokunge apedza chikoro? Tarisa zvakatarisa mari yaunotarisira kumwana wako mukuru uye yekoroji kuti aone kana kune tariro yakakwana yekukwanisa kubhadhara mari yose yakakweretwa.
- Inobata sei mhuri? Zvinogona kuva nyore kubatwa mumufaro wemwana mumwe anopinda koreji, asi haifaniri kunge iri pamhuri yevose mhuri. Iva nechokwadi chekuti wakwana zvakakwana kuti uwane koji yevamwe vana, unogona kubhadhara mhuri dzekukurumidzira, uye uchange uchikwanisika kuwana mararamiro akanaka ekurega basa iwe pachako.