Chinoita Kuti Vabereki Vasingadi Kubatanidza Yose Chikoro
Somubereki unonzwa uine chimwe chikonzero chekutarisira vana vako kuburikidza nemakore avo vaduku uye kuvapa kutanga kwakanaka muupenyu. Iwe wakashanda nesimba kuti uchengetedze mari, uye nguva yasvika apo iwe unogona kutarisira kutumira mwana wako iye zvino akura kuenda kuchikoro. Iwe wakapedza FAFSA, wakabatsira mudzidzi wako kukumbira rubatsiro, uye akaenzanisa rubatsiro rwemari runopiwa hunoenda kune chisarudzo chokupedzisira.
Asi kuchine chimwe chimwe chezvinhu zvinoshandiswa kuti zvigadziriswe kuburikidza nezvikwereti zvevadzidzi . Mubvunzo waunofanirwa kuzvibvunza iye zvino ndehupi iyo yakawanda yevadzidzi vechikwereti ichi chinofanira kuva chekuita kwevadzidzi vako, uye zvakadini zvinofanira kuva zvako. Uri kuita mwana wako chero zvipi zvako kuburikidza kwete kumubatanidza iye mumutoro wezvemari, kana kuti iwe unosungirwa semubereki kutarisira zvinhu zvose here? Hezvino zvishoma zvikomborero zvaungada kufunga nezvazvo paunosarudza kana uchifanira kurega mudzidzi wako kukwereta mari yekoroji :
- Mwana wako anodzidza kuongorora mari yekusarudza: Unoziva kuti pane zvinhu zvakawanda zvinopinda mune zvemari muhupenyu hwevanhu vakuru, asi mwana wako angave asati anzwisisa izvi. Iwe unorema mari uye zvinobatsira zvekumba pamba, kutengesa kwemotokari, kugadzirisa, uye kubhadhara mari yekusarura nemari yese yekuita mari. Kana pasina munhu akakupa mazano pawakanga uri muduku, ungadai wakaita zvikanganiso zvishoma munzira. Usarega mwana wako mukana uyu kudzidza. Kurukurai nezvekubatsira kwekoroji imwe neimwe, mari inenge ichida kukweretwa kuti iwane chikoro, kuwana mari inouya mune ramangwana, uye hupenyu hwehutano hwekukwereta zvikwereti zvevadzidzi.
- Mudzidzi wako ane zvakawanda "ganda mumutambo": Kana iwe uchibhadhara zvinhu zvose, ipapo mudzidzi wako haave nechikonzero chikuru chokubudirira. Angave akanzwa achida kutadza, kana kuti kwete kuedza zvakaoma. Apo vadzidzi vanoziva kuti ramangwana ravo rezvemari rinobatsira pakuita kwavo zvakanaka mukoroji, ivo vanowanzokwanisa kubhadhara zvakanyanya pane zvavari kudzidza.
- Unyanzvi huri nani hwekugadzirisa bhaari: Tose takanzwa nezvevadzidzi vanokumbira mari nguva dzose pavanenge vachikurukura nevabereki vavo, kana avo vanowedzera mari yevadzidzi vavo uye vangashandisa mari yacho zvishoma. Vamwe vanomhanya mumusungo we nyore kadhi rechikwereti mari. Makambani achawanzoshanyira makorosiji ekupa makadhi makuru-makadhi kuvadzidzi vasati vaine unyanzvi huripo hwekuita bhajeti. Vadzidzi vanonzwa sokunge kuti iri mari isingabhadharwi, uye vanobhadhara marudzi ose ezvinhu zvisina kufanira uye zvisina basa, uye vanoshamisika apo mabhiriji anotanga kupinda. Kuita chirongwa chokudzorera chikwereti chevadzidzi ndicho chiito chekutanga chekudzidza nezvekuderera kwekukwereta uye kuripa chido. Dzidzisa mudzidzi wako kuisa pamwe chete mari inofungidzirwa yegore, kungokwereta izvo zvakakosha kuti uwane mari iyo, nekunyatsodzivisa kutora chikwereti chakawedzerwa pasina kunyatsofunga nemigumisiro yenguva refu.
- Zviri nani iwe nemhuri yako: Kunze kwekuti mudzidzi wako ari oga mwana kana kuti iwe une mari yakakwana yekubhadhara, kubhadhara koreji kunopa mutoro wakakura pamhuri yose. Hazvifaniri kungoita zvaunoshandisa purogiramu yako, iwe ikozvino unovhara zvinotarisirwa kune mumwe munhu angasave iye zvino ari kugara mumba mako. Vamwe vana vachiri kuita mabasa avo, uye vangave vachitarisira mberi kumabasa avo ekoroji. Iwe unogona kuva nevabereki vakwegura kuti vatarisire, uye iwe une zvaunofunga nezvemari uye urongwa hwekuchera basa kuti uzvifungisise. Kana iwe uchizvichengeta iwe iye zvino uye mune ramangwana, mikana iwe hausi kuzova iwe unotendeukira kuvana vako kuti vabatsirwe mune zvemari apo zvinodiwa.
Iva nechokwadi chekuti iwe ugere pasi uye kurukura pfungwa yako zvakakwana nemudzidzi wako. Taura chaizvo kuti iwe uchave uchida kubhadhara uye sei iwe unotarisira kuti koji yako yekupedza kubhadhara kubva mune ramangwana rekuwana.