Ndiyo nyaya yemari inokonzera kurwisana nemumwe wako here?
Funga nezvezviratidzo izvi zvishanu zvinoshandiswa nemari zvinogona kutyisidzira ukama hwako, asi ona kuti kusagadzikana kwemari hakufaniri kureva kuguma kwako.
Kune nzira dzekushanda kuburikidza nemibvunzo iyi kana iwe uchizviziva.
1. Unopesana Nezvimwe Zvisarudzo
Kana iwe uchigara uchitsvaga kutengesa kutengesana kune mumwe nemumwe, kana kukakavara pamusoro pekunge imwe yekutenga inokosha here kana kwete , inogona kuva chiratidzo chokuti hausi pamapeji akafanana maererano nekushandisa zvinhu zvinokosha.
Icho chinhu chimwe chete kana iwe usingawirirani pane dzimwe nguva - vose vakaroorana vanoita. Ndiyo imwe kana iwe uchinzwa sokuti hazvinei pasinei nezvaunoita nemari yako, zvisarudzo zvako zvicharamba zvichitungamirira kurwisana.
2. Zvaunoshandisa Pamwe Chete Zvinowanikwa Zvakasiyana
Ndiye shopaholic ane pakati makumi maviri ehomwe uye anokwanisa kupedza zuva rose pamisika. Iwe uri "penny yakachengetedzwa ipeni yakagamuchira" rudzi rwevanhu vanofarira kudya Ramen kwekudya kwemanheru kupfuura kuenda kune imwe dollar pamusoro pebhadharo yako yegore roga roga.
Kunyange zvazvo zvichiita kuti zvipikiso zvitsvake - uye pakupedzisira zvive nehutano hwekuvhiringidza hunovashandira - zivai chete kuti mune basa rekuita kana mafungiro emari yako ari kushora zvachose .
Iko kunotanga nekuve wakasununguka kuti unzwisise pane mumwe munhu ari kuuya kubva, pasina kutongwa.
3. Uri kuchengeta zvakavanzika kubva kune umwe neumwe
Iwe hauna kumuudza kuti uri $ 20,000 mune chikwereti . Haana kukuudza iwe kuti akabhadhara $ 1 000 yegadget idzva panzvimbo ye $ 100 yaakati yaipedza.
Hazvina mhosva kuti yakakura sei kana duku, kuchengeta zvakavanzika kubva kune mumwe nemumwe mutsvuku mutsvuku iwe une dzimwe nyaya dzekutenda.
Ukama hwakasimba huchakwanisa kuwana zvikanganiso zvakapfuura uye zvimwe zvinetso, asi zvakaoma kudzoka kubva pakaputsika mukutenda.
4. Mumwe wenyu Anotsika Nzira Kazhinji
Iwe haufaniri kuparadzanisa zvikwereti 50/50 nguva dzose (kana zvipo zvako zvakasiyana zvakasiyana, urongwa hwe 50/50 hunogona kusanzwisisika). Uye iwe haufaniri kushingaira kutarisa kuti ndiani akabhadhara nokuda kwei, kusvikira pasi kudhora.
Asi iwe unofanirwa kufunga kuti iwe wese, iwe umwe neumwe uri kubhadhara chikamu chako chakanaka chekubatanidza mari yako, ingave yekudya kwemasikati kana yeimba yemari. (Kana mumwe munhu akashanda uye mumwe achigara-kumba-nevana, munofanira kunge munonzwa sokuti muri kupawo zvakaenzana nekuita imba yose.) Kusanzwisisika kunogona kukonzera kutsamwa.
5. Iwe Haugoni Kutaurirana Mari Pasina Munhu Anotsamwa
Mari inogona kunge iri nyaya inonakidza, iyo inogona kuunza chimwe chikwata chemuviri nacho. Asi kana iwe usingagoni kukwanisa kutaura pamusoro payo newawakaroorana naye wakadzikama uye uchida-kana kana iwe usingakwanisi kutaura nezvazvo zvachose - zvinogona kureva nyaya dzakadzika muhukama hwako.
Mari ndiyo chikamu chakakura chokugoverana hupenyu hwako nemumwe munhu, uye kana iwe usingakwanisi kurukurukura nomumwe nomumwe, iwe wakasungirwa kune dambudziko. Iwe unogona seizve kushanda kuti uwane zvinangwa zvemari pamwe chete, kana kuziva kuti zvinangwa izvi ndezvipi pakutanga, kana iwe usingasununguri kutaura pamusoro pazvo?
Munyaya iyi, kutsvaga rubatsiro rwezvenyanzvi kunogona kunge iri bheji yako yakanakisisa yekuvandudza hukama huri nani kwete pakati pako chete, asi nemari yako.