Iwe unoputika mu sweti rinotonhora kana uchitaura nezvekuda kwako here? Unogona here kutsungirira kufunga nezvokuti kune here mari yakakwana yekurarama nayo kana murume wako akafa? Iwe unokwanisa here kufungisisa nezvechechei iyo inozoshanda bhizinesi kana iwe ukafa; regai kutaurirana pamusoro pazvo mumusangano wemhuri?
I "D" Shoko
Nhamo yekutanga yekukundwa inotarisana newe pachako kufa. Pose pandinosangana nemumwe munhu ndinoedza kumirira kusvikira vashandisa hufumi yavo pachavo nokuda kwekufa, zvino ndinoshandisa mazwi iwayo kune imwe musangano. Pane sarudzo yakawanda yekubatsiridzira kwezwi rokuti "D" - "kupfuurira mberi," "kukanda ibhakiti," "kusangana nemuiti wangu," "kana chimwe chinhu chichiitika kwandiri," "inorohwa nekarori," "kukwidza madhiisi , "" Makumbo mana pasi pe "- kungoti vashoma. Vanhu vachati chero chinhu pane "kana ndikafa."
Vamwe vanhu vanobatirira kune mashura kuti kuita chido kunounza rufu. Kutenda mashura, hongu, asi zvisinei, iyo inopesana chaizvo nevanhu vazhinji.
Kupa Kudzora
Izvo zvinotambudza ndezvekutya kwekusiya kutonga. Kuronga zvekugara hakurevi kupa zvinhu zvako kure. Vanhu vazhinji vanoziva kuti vanofanira kuita chimwe chinhu kuderedza mitero, asi kutya kutya kupa zvinhu zvavo kuvana vavo. Vakanzwa zvakawanda kwazvo zvinotyisa nyaya pamusoro pevana vasingaongi vanopedza kuchengetedza mhuri uye vanosiya vabereki vavo.
Vanhu vakawanda vanozvida zvose - vanoda kuchengetedza kusagadzikana kusina kukwana pamusoro pezvinhu zvavo zvose uyewo havabhadhara mitero yeimba. Pane maitiro anobvumira kupfigirwa paanenge achichengetedza kuraira kwakanyanya, uye pane nzira dzokuchengetedza mari. Kudzidza pamusoro pezvikwangwani izvi chikamu chekugadzirisa dzimba.
Kutarisana Nemutemo
Kutya kushanda nemwe gweta ndeimwe dambudziko guru. (Kufara chokwadi: Dikigorosophobia ndiko kutya kwemitongi.) Unogona kunge uchitya gweta richafunga kuti iwe hauna ruzivo, unofanidzirwa. Iwe unonzwa usingazivi here nokuti iwe unofanidza kudana kuti repairman agadzire mhepo yepamhepo? Kwete kwete! Nenzira imwechete yausingazivi kugadzirisa mhepo yepamhepo, iwe hauzive kupedzisa chirongwa chepfuma. Izvi hazvisi kuratidza pauchenjeri hwako kana kuti unhu hwako.
Iwe unogona kunge uchitya kuve wakagumburwa nemhosva yemhosva , kana kutya kuti gweta harisi kuzokuteerera iwe uye rinongokurudzira mberi nechirongwa chausingadi iwe chausingadi. Chinokosha kukurira kutya uku ndiko kuwana gweta rakarurama. Kufanana nechimwe chinhu chipi zvacho, kutumirwa kubva kune munhu anogutsikana kunowanzova nzira yakanakisisa. [Bvunza shamwari dzako dzavanoshandisa kumumiriri weimba. Kufanana nezvimwe zvizhinji zvekuita chisarudzo, zvakanaka kuti uite tsvakurudzo uye utaure kune vanyori vemareji, kana makambani, vasati vatora kusarudza.
The Cost
Chii chinodhura? Kutya kwebhadharo chimwe chinhu chinochengetedza vanhu kubva kumagadziro ekugara. Ngatitarisei. Kuraira kweimba hakusi kwauri - ndeyevaya vamusiya. Iwe hausi kuzokuvadzwa nematare emitengo.
Iwe uchange uine "nguva refu". Hausi kuzofanira kutaurirana uyo anowana baba vekuru-vana vanozofanirwa kushandiswa kunze. Saka mari yakawanda sei (kwete kutaura nguva uye simba rekunetseka) iwe unoda kushandisa purogiramu yemiganhu yeimba yako? Urongwa hwokugadzira zvipo zvechokwadi chipo kumhuri yako. Zivai izvo zvazviri - kutarisira vamwe. Kusiya urongwa hwakarongeka hwakanaka shure kwechipo chakanakisisa chaunogona kupa mhuri yako. Saronga zvinhu zvako kuti uite zvakanakisisa mhuri yako, shamwari, uye zvipo.
Usatya kutya kubvunza kuti gweta rinopomerwa sei. Vatongi vakawanda vanobhadhara chiyero cheawa imwe chete, uye unogona kutarisira kubhadhara mukana wepamusoro kune nyanzvi (somuenzaniso vanovhiya mwoyo vanowedzera kupfuura vanamukoti vadzidzisi). Zvimwe zvekugadziriswa kwemaimba zvinowanikwa pamatare edzimba, asi chiyero hachikwanisi kupiwa kusvikira gweta rinonyatsoziva zvichazobatanidzwa .
Anenge pasina munhu anowana "chisarudzo chakanaka." Zvimwe zvinosanganiswa muurongwa hwehupfumi kupfuura kungoda, uye mamiriro ose emhuri akasiyana.
Mhuri Mhuri
Zvisarudzo zvemhuri zvakakomba ndezvimwe zvinokanganisa mupfungwa. Pane here kurambana kuri kuuya kune mumwe wevana vako? Mumwe wevana vazukuru vane zvavanoda here? Iwe iwe kana wako wako ucharoorazve here? Ndiani ari kutarisira bhizimisi remhuri shure kwekufa kwevabereki? Kutarisana nenyaya idzi kunogona kuva kunorwadza kwazvo zvokuti zvinodziviswa nokusingaperi. Zvadaro, chinhu chinonyangadza chakasara shure. Kudzivisa dambudziko hakuiti kuti iende.
Zvakadini kana mumwe wevana ari mukati uye akabuda mumishonga yekugadzirisa, kana mumwe wevana ndiye unyanzvi anobudirira, uye mumwe wacho ari mubereki ari oga ari kutambura ane vana vaduku uye basa rokumanikidzwa mubhadharo. Ko vana ava vanotarisirwa zvakaenzana muurongwa hwehupfumi here kana iwe unodzinga mwana ?
Zvakadini nemhuri yakabatana - vana ndeyako, yangu neyedu. Vose zvavo vanogovana zvakaenzana mumhuri dzaamai nababa here? Kutarisana nemisungo yakaoma yakadai seiyo yakaoma. Gweta rekugadzirisa mararamiro anogona kukubatsira nekukupa zvisarudzo uye zvisarudzo. Iwe unoda kuva nemumwe munhu achiita izvi zvisarudzo kwauri shure kwekufa kwako here? Zvakaipisisa, unoda here kuti mhuri yako iparadzwe nekurwa pamusoro peimba yako?